Ella Shields
ELLA (they/them) is a bubbly and radically kind intimacy activist passionate about teaching consent as a revolutionary tool to rebuild society in an equitable and sustainable way. Their studies and experiences have inspired a deep obsession with the many beautiful layers of consent. Ella has fine-tuned the art of creating safety and space in workshops, allowing participants to shed societal armor. With a talent for simplifying complex theory and a love for wordplay, Ella blends humor and vulnerability to explore heavy topics. Their approach invites connection, fostering both deep emotional engagement and playful exploration in equal measure.
1. QUEERLY EVER AFTER - Embark on a magical journey to a fairytale land where gender boundaries dissolve and true connection blossoms. In this tender exploration of attraction and embodiment, I invite you to let go of old stories and step into the most radiant version of yourself. Together, we’ll experience the world with fresh eyes, discovering a wondrous, new realm. No need to worry about past experiences or labels like “straight” or “gay”—just allow yourself to delight in your body and the joyful connection it can bring with others. Keywords: experiential workshop, connection, touch, potential partial nudity but undies on, no partner needed.
2. TEMPLE NIGHT - Together with Wilrieke Sophia.
3. INTIMACY OF HARM - When we relate to each other, it is inevitable that we will cause harm - this is simply a part of being human, being messy, and being conditioned by the societies we are parts of. Making mistakes is scary; causing harm is painful. How can we transform moments of pain into moments of closeness? In this workshop, we use open discussions and guided exercises to dive deeper into an exploration of the mechanisms that are activated within us when we cause harm. How can we be safe people when receiving feedback? How do we imagine accountability? And how can we forgive ourselves when we behave in imperfect and harmful ways?
4. ANAL JOY - Welcome to the celebration of the butt! As a true non-binary genital, butts can be played with in any gender constellation - and that can unlock some very juicy new dynamics. We'll start slowly with a discussion around pleasure, shame, and everything in between from the perspective of the anus. Then we'll enter a skill sharing on butt techniques and finish off with some space for exploration - from playing with butts to trying on strap ons! Genital touch will not be facilitated but is welcome in the free flow. Keywords: experiential workshop, genital touch, come with a partner, sharing, nudity, you need to bring a matrass cover.