Alessandra Beer
ALY (she/her) is a Brazilian nomad, artist, producer, facilitator and, eternal student. Passionate about justice and relationships, after years working in the Justice Court (lawyer by training), she left to support others in their own processes of self-development and in navigating relationships, intimacy, and self-expression with integrity. Along her journey, she acquired various tools such as the Wheel of Consent and Relational Mindfulness, which she uses to create spaces where people can feel safe to explore their essence, desires, boundaries, sexuality, and inhabit the place where love and power meet. She also produces events such as the Sexsibility Brazil Festival, and is the co-host of the podcast "Revolucionários do Amor".
1. WISHING WHEEL - This is a workshop on consent. We do a couple of practices of yes, no, authentic requests, etc. There is a little bit of explanation and reflection on why we struggle to say no, what we do instead and why don't we ask for what we want, what do we do instead. I will guide you in "a wishing wheel" - a circle where people can make specific request to specific people. I will support you through how to get clarity on what you want. Keywords: Touch, Communication, Empowerment, Boundaries, Desires, nudity optional undies stay on.
2. PLAYFUL TEMPLE NIGHT - Together with Mark & Anna, Lisa & Binta, Aly will hold space for the first Temple Night suitable for beginners and more experienced participants. We will guide you in a space were you can express yourself, try something new, or just look others and dance. You don’t have to do anything but just being there if you wish. You can wear clothes you feel happy, joyful, sexy or just nice (jeans and jogging trousers are not really suitable for temple nights). Keywords: sensuality, guided temple spaces, wishing wheel, designated area’s for nudity.
3. TEMPLE: EVENING CEREMONY: THE VEIL AND THE SOUL - Together with Ma Shanti, Samuel and Aly, Marcos will hold space for this temple, that invites you into a more mysterious and intimate field — a space where breath, movement, voice, and subtle erotic awakening begin to dissolve the masks, roles, and protective layers that so often keep us hidden from one another. Guided into deeper embodied presence, participants are invited to soften the veil and enter the sacred art of seeing and being seen. Not through performance. Not through seduction alone. But through the raw beauty of presence, vulnerability, and the quiet intensity of the heart. This is a space where the heart can awaken, the body can listen, and connection can deepen beyond the surface of identity. This is a nocturnal ritual of revelation — an invitation to let Kali clear the path, to let the veil fall, and to taste the exquisite intimacy of being truly seen. Keywords: ritual, vulnerablity, eroticism, meditation, mystical experience.
4. TEMPLE: EVENING CEREMONY: THE VEIL AND THE SOUL - Together with Ma Shanti, Samuel and Marcos, Aly will hold space for this temple, that invites you into a more mysterious and intimate field — a space where breath, movement, voice, and subtle erotic awakening begin to dissolve the masks, roles, and protective layers that so often keep us hidden from one another. Guided into deeper embodied presence, participants are invited to soften the veil and enter the sacred art of seeing and being seen. Not through performance. Not through seduction alone. But through the raw beauty of presence, vulnerability, and the quiet intensity of the heart. This is a space where the heart can awaken, the body can listen, and connection can deepen beyond the surface of identity. This is a nocturnal ritual of revelation — an invitation to let Kali clear the path, to let the veil fall, and to taste the exquisite intimacy of being truly seen. Keywords: ritual, vulnerablity, eroticism, meditation, mystical experience.
5. SENSUAL TEMPLE NIGHT - Together with Christina, Lisa and Anita, Aly will hold space for a soft sensual temple night. Keywords: slow temple, massage, sensuality, playfulness, connection, nudity in designated areas.
6. INTIMACY OF GOODBYE - The last day of the festival Aly will support the process of letting go of the festival experiences, keeping the gold of every encounter, every moment, without clinging to them. Mostly after a festival a feeling of loneliness and disconnection to the world out of the festival can arise. That is only a effect of the clinging to experiences and people we met. Any feeling that has been born in you it has been always a part of you and doesn’t depend on the presence of others or the days of the festival. Keywords: inquiry, meditation, emotional work, connection with yourself, lightness.
PRIVATE SESSIONS
Embodied Consent (1hr - €80) - You'll be invited into an experiential exploration of your desires, boundaries, needs and relational patterns — not just with others, but with yourself. This is a space to practice being radically honest with your Yes and No, and to reclaim your right to feel, to want, to choose - for yourself! This session is for: individuals that want to feel more in tune with their body’s; practice boundary-setting with clarity; get out of their tendencies of "going along" or people pleasing; reconnect to their pleasure and presence; explore sexuality beyond shame or conditioning.
Relational Consent (1 1/2 hr - €120) - IIn these sessions, we explore the living dynamics of your relationship through the lens of the Wheel of Consent, relational mindfulness and clear communication. This session is about creating a space where each person can feel seen, heard and respected in their needs, limits and desires. This session is for: couples navigating transitions, disconnection or communication blocks; partners wanting to deepen trust, desire and mutual understanding; people exploring conscious intimacy, open relating or alternative dynamics - any couple wanting to grow together!
Consent Based Facilitation (1 1/2 hr - €100) - I offer mentoring for practitioners who work with people’s empowerment and would like to ground their services and practices on consent. You will learn how to guide people on their experience, how to support them to feel safe, distinguish between what is your responsibility and what it’s not, and how to deepen your integrity as a facilitator. You also get a personalized feedback to enhance the work you already do.